Iranian Customs and Etiquette
This Iran Travel Guide will help you understand and respect Persian traditions.
Embarking on a journey to Iran is not just about visiting ancient monuments and breathtaking landscapes; it's about immersing yourself in one of the world’s most unique and hospitable cultures. Understanding and respecting Iranian customs and etiquette is the key to unlocking a deeper, more rewarding travel experience. Iranians value politeness, honor, and social grace above all else. This guide will walk you through the essential norms you need to know, from greeting people to dining in a traditional home, ensuring your interactions are respectful and authentic. By learning a few simple rules of Iranian customs and etiquette, you'll find that Iranian people are not just welcoming, but eager to share their beautiful culture with you.
Greetings & Politeness
A handshake is common between men. For women, it is best to wait for them to extend their hand first. Always use polite titles and show respect, especially to elders. Learning a few Persian phrases like "Salam" (Hello) and "Merci" (Thank you) will be greatly appreciated.
Understanding Taarof
Taarof is the Persian art of etiquette. It may involve a shopkeeper refusing payment or a host offering excessive hospitality. The polite response is to insist on paying or gently refuse an offer a couple of times before accepting. It's a beautiful dance of politeness.
Dining & Home Etiquette
If invited to an Iranian home, it's customary to bring a small gift like pastries or flowers. Always remove your shoes before entering. Wait to be told where to sit and only start eating after the host begins. Trying a little of everything offered is considered polite.
Photography Etiquette
Iranians are generally happy to be photographed, but it is essential to always ask for permission first, especially when photographing women or in rural areas. Avoid taking pictures of military installations, government buildings, and protests.
Dress Code (Hijab)
Modesty is key. Women must wear a headscarf (rousari) and loose-fitting clothing that covers the body. Men should wear long trousers and avoid sleeveless shirts in public.
Visiting Mosques & Shrines
Dress very conservatively. Women will often be required to wear a chador (provided at the entrance). Remove your shoes before entering, speak softly, and avoid taking photos during prayer times.
Public Conduct
Public displays of affection are not common. During the holy month of Ramadan, refrain from eating, drinking, or smoking in public during fasting hours out of respect.
Business Etiquette
Punctuality is valued in business settings. Business relationships are built on trust and personal connection, so expect some small talk before getting down to business. Formal titles are often used.
Gift Giving
When giving a gift, it may be politely refused a few times (Taarof). Present it with your right hand or both hands. Gifts are typically opened in private, not in front of the giver.
Gender Relations
In public, unrelated men and women generally maintain a respectful distance. Avoid initiating physical contact with someone of the opposite gender unless they initiate it first.
Frequently Asked Questions
Quick answers to common questions about etiquette in Iran.